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Wednesday, March 10, 2010

I don't deserve love..

What a boyfriend must know!!
1. Girls do not like guys who lie

2. To impress them. Tell the truth and you'll never have to worry about getting caught in a lie
3. Be protective, but not overprotective. Don't control her every move, and don't let her control you
4. Make her feel like you want to take care of her.

5. Tell her when you are thinking about her

6. Make an effort to get along with her friends. Be friendly, but don't flirt with them. Your girlfriend could easily be hurt by this

7. Avoid fights, arguments, and disagreements with her friends

8. Always tell her that she is the only girl in your life.

9. Treat her well.

10. Compliment her often so that she knows that you're still interested in her.

11. Try to cheer her up when she's sad about little things. For emotions like grief, it's best to simply be there for her

12. Don't try to make her jealous, or suggest that she may be jealous

13. Bring her some of her favorite flowers.

14. Be romantic

15. Don't tell her you think other girls are hot, even if she asks your opinion

16. In the same way, don't make her jealous of your exes. Keep conversations about them to an absolute minimum

17. Don't pressure her

18. Never call her fat, even if she's obese

19. Listen to her speak, even if the topic is boring. After a bit, gently change the subject

20. "No" always means no. Even when you think it doesn't

21. Don't let your friends pick on her. Stick up for her, even if they are only kidding

22. Try to do something you both love to do, so that relationships don't seem a drag to you.

23. Tell her you've been thinking about her all day.

24. Kiss her on the forehead and on top of her head, especially when she is feeling down, and

always say a simple 'I love you'

25. When she is venting about something (whether it’s about her life or about your relationship) doesn’t turn it into something about you. She's just telling you her feelings

26. Don't be afraid of kissing her in public if she wants to.

27. Answer her phone calls...and don't complain that she woke you up.

28. Call her for no reason....just to talk to her so she knows that you care and are always thinking of her

29. Notice the tiny details about her, if she mentions that she liked something and then 3 weeks later you remember she'll love it

30. Surprise her! (but not in an annoying way, it has to be sweet and loving e.g. a small gift or sending her something in the post)

31. Spoil her!

32. Call her at night just to wish her sweet dreams.

33. Don't forget her birthday. Just don't

34. Stand up for her. If you have friends who don't like her and call her names, if you hear them, you better stand up for her. She's your girlfriend, for Heaven's sake! That doesn't mean cussing your friends out and making them mortal enemies, it just means saying, "Hey guys, that's not cool." Your girlfriend will be glad to know that you are so loyal and respect her.

35. Text her randomly just saying "I'm thinking about you". It means a lot to her to know that she's always on your mind

36. Write poetry for her. Writing girl poetry or a song is extremely cute. Who cares if he spelled "where" as one would spell "were", or if he misses a comma, or repeats a word in the same sentence? A girl will always be flattered that you care enough to do something like that for her. Just don't write her anything too...sexy. Write a poem about her eyes or the way she smiles. Write about her laugh or how much she means to you

37. Make her feel safe and loved. All humans like feeling safe and loved. Girls are no different thank you very much. We need to be reassured that you actually like us, you aren't just desperate. Make sure your girlfriend knows she’s important to you

38.Write out "I love you" and say it to her face. If your texting and you say "ily" that’s all fine and good but it is so much cuter if you take the time to write I Love You. it means a lot more. Also, say it to her face the first time. don’t use text

39. Speak Up. Whether it is about problems or choices, always converse with your girlfriend. Boys have the tendency to keep their problems with themselves, but sometimes this can lead to problems. If your mood is not good and she tries to find out the reason, tell her the problem and for sure, she’ll offer you her shoulder to relax
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I found that I will never be a good boyfriend, so i will just study hard. I don't deserve any love(of cause not included love from friends and family)..I believe my life still can go on well..hehe^^

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